define love

Single people always try to define Love...

Or is it just me?

Or maybe EVERYONE tries, but doesn't speak their thoughts.

Anyway, i came across something...

It says love is:

• Lust
• Attraction
• Attachment
• Obsession

 I never really knew love. The closest i had ever came to it is that feeling i have for my BB dog. Or maybe the feeling i guess my father has for me, vice-versa.

But now, to think of it. I suspect what i thought was love, wasn't. Because there's commitment involved. What i thought was love was in fact - more than love.

Love is indeed a cocktail of lust, attraction, attachment and obsession... i agree!

That'll make Love very logical.

I used to wonder why some people claim to love - but act otherwise. When i say "otherwise" i meant actions like cheating, neglecting, abusing etc...

So now i'm suddenly enlightened. When you love chocolate, it doesn't mean you can't love cheesecake when there's no chocolate in sight (cheating). When you love chocolate, doesn't mean you can't find no time to savor it (neglecting). When you love chocolate, doesn't mean you can't bin it when you feel it has expired, doesn't mean you can't break it violently in a fit of anger (abuse).

Love is exactly like infatuation.

Love is exactly like a crush.


Oh well, seems like Love is not so sacred after all!


P/s - so currently i'm in love with two guys. And one of them just commented that my hair cut is nice! THAT'S LIKE OUR FIRST REAL CONVERSATION! Haha! Today is gonna be a good day! =]